It is common for us to keep thinking about things that are important to us. Whether it is applying to a particular university or studying for an exam.
The problem is that overthinking and over preparation often leads us towards bad decision-making. Here are some tips on how you can avoid over preparing and over thinking.
Overpreparation can trap us in a cycle of inaction, turning achievements into anxiety. Instead of learning more, it can cause regression. This articles gives you ways to help you stop over-preparing and over thinking.
Over learning and over thinking often stems from repeatedly questioning decisions. Trust your initial judgment and only reassess when presented with new data. In the same manner, do not try to learn new skills each day, first use the skills you know. If there is an area where you are stuck, then focus on that area. In short, Rule #7
Endless thinking and learning often looks like problem-solving, but what you are doing is only spinning in circles. Once you recognize this, either stop or move on.
Always remember - what you want and what you this should be 90% while what others feel is only 10%. Overthinkers often reverse this, placing too much emphasis on others’ opinions or focusing on skills that others are learning.
While planning for the worse is important, planning only for the worse is a bad idea. Allow yourself some margin for relaxation and positive thought.
What this means is that you cannot know everything. You cannot learn all the skills. Focus on what is important while not dwelling on what is not. You can’t predict the future or read minds, so don’t try. Overthinking won’t grant you these abilities.
Uncertainty often leads to unfounded assumptions. Instead, observe and accept uncertainty, recognizing its potential to foster creativity and resilience. What this means is when you are faced with something unfamiliar, the familiar things will come to your help. Enjoy the process of learning on the go.
Asking “what if” leads to endless questions. Shift to “we’ll see” to move beyond analysis paralysis.
Analysis paralysis is a state where overthinking or overanalyzing a situation leads to an inability to make a decision. This phenomenon often occurs when an individual or group becomes overwhelmed by the number of options or variables to consider, leading to indecision and inaction
Step out of your head and interact with the world around you to find joy and perspective.
Overthinking often involves worrying about worst-case scenarios. Consider the actual likelihood of these outcomes.
Don’t exaggerate minor issues into major problems. This only leads to unnecessary stress.
Fear of being wrong can fuel overthinking. Evaluate the actual consequences, which are often less severe than imagined.
Use these insights to break free from overthinking and move forward confidently.
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